A day late & a dollar short

Posted by Be Bougie on

It's not just about knowing your worth, it's getting paid for it too. In honor of Black Women's Equal Pay Day on August 13th, let's talk about it. As women, we often undervalue ourselves when it comes to negotiating salary and pay. Not to mention that most adults consider talking about money- very taboo.

Being paid $0.62 cents for every $1 dollar costs us not only money but time. It takes a black woman 19 months to make what her white male counterparts will make in 12 months! EVERY YEAR WE ARE 7 MONTHS BEHIND! 

As friends, we felt the need to share a few pearls with you. 

The reality is your starting salary is what sets the foundation of any additional earnings as you move up in your career. So if you don't ask for what you want out the gate, you can eventually set yourself up towards running behind the rest of your tenure.  Let THAT sink in. 

Already in your job? All is not lost you can consider negotiating an increase in your bonus potential to catch up. 

When interviewing, you can always ask a company what the salary range is for a position. However, they can not ask you what your prior salaries were.  

Check out this article in Forbes.  Here's an updated list on which states and local areas that have Salary History Bans-yes there are bans and it's actually illegal, and the list is growing. It's good to know what the legal rules are on salary history bans in your area.

Every job expects you to negotiate. The first offer is generally the low ball offer. It is what the employer is comfortable with. They WANT you to take the first offer. 

Don't!!!  

Push the envelope. There is always SOMETHING in the contract you can negotiate. The worse they can say is "No". You have nothing to lose. They like you that's why you are being interviewed. Have a walk-away number-and don't undercut yourself. 

Know & negotiate your worth. 

Pay Me What You Owe Me Call it Square

We'll even throw in a lil' bit of Bible into this convo-"You have not because you ask not."

Below we've included some Negotiation Resources for you. 

  1. Harvard Business Review: 15 Rules for Negotiating a Job Offer
  2. Essence's Unbossed Podcast: Pay Me What you Owe Me
  3. Here are some Wage Empowerment Resources from the American Association of University Women. 
  4. 7 Tips to Negotiate Like a Lawyer by Shay M. Lawson Esq. 
  5. Check out a few books on how to negotiate :

Be Bougie

Higher Standards and Unapologetic

← Older Post Newer Post →


Leave a comment

Please note, comments must be approved before they are published.

SIZE CHART

★Reviews

Let customers speak for us

148 reviews
95%
(141)
3%
(4)
0%
(0)
0%
(0)
2%
(3)
Love My Tshirt

I received my Be Bougie T and my Enough T in my order. The quality of the T is great, the sizing was accurate and it washes well. The lettering on the T was top notch. I love everything about my order. Definitely looking forward to more designs

C
Bougie-ish Vintage Cap
Christina Walton
Easily my go to hat!

I absolutely love this hat. I can wear it with so many different styles. It fits comfortably with different hairstyles as well as thicknesses, and I’ve already gotten so many compliments on it!

Great quality

I love my sweatshirt. Great quality. I haven't worn it yet but Im sure I will get plenty of compliments when I do.

B
Bougie-ish Vintage Cap
Brandi Edwards
Stylish Cap

I purchased the bougie-ish hat in denim. I was impressed with the quality and stitching. Perfect to dress up with an outfit or throw on for a quick store run. Happy to add it to my baseball cap collection!

Fits great!